Arachnophobic don't laugh and please help!

Brown widows are similar to black widows but are far less reclusive. They have the banded legs and a more orangish hour glass. They’re less venomous.
Good eye. They are much smaller than the large black widow I found in my garage once. That one was jet black with no banding.

Good to know these weren't the real deal!!
 

Honestly, people aren't going to laugh at you because you are scared of spiders. Many people are. Maybe most are. I wouldn't want to have a black widow walk all over my arm.
But the answer is not to kill them. So people are going to tell you that. Instead of killing that what you irrationally fear, maybe try to accept your fear the same way everyone here already accepted your fear, and didn't laugh.
 
A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones. Laughter enhances your intake of oxygen-rich air, stimulates your heart, lungs and muscles, and increases the endorphins that are released by your brain. Activate and relieve your stress response. :)
 
I can do this on everything but Black Widows. For a personal reason they have what you might call a “special” place in my heart… lol
I killed one today! I am keenly aware of what to look for and where they may possibly be. I used to believe in live and let live when it came to black widows, UNTIL I was bitten by one while watering my yard one late summer evening. Having the Neuro-toxic venom make it through your body is scary and there are also many hours of pain. I had to go to the ER and get an experimental anti-venom. Any way I now have some toxic cans of spider spray in several places around my yard.
 
I was weeding with my daughter a couple weeks back... I looked up and she had a 3" spider crawling over her shoulder and down her back. Easily the biggest spider I've ever seen in the wild. She has not volunteered to assist with weeding since then.
 
i actually have a tarantula pet and i quite like jumping spiders

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as for those webbing bunch in dark corners...
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Brings up a point about collecting. Whilst digging an oak along a fenceline in East Texas one late winter, I grabbed a handful of leaves/duff from around the bottom of the tree. I opened my hand and there was the largest black widow I'd ever seen easily as big as a quarter. Lucky I was wearing gloves--always wear gloves when you're doing that kind of work collecting a tree.

This feller was attached to the electric bill when I pulled it out of the mailbox. It's an East Texas cockroach.
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Brings up a point about collecting. Whilst digging an oak along a fenceline in East Texas one late winter, I grabbed a handful of leaves/duff from around the bottom of the tree. I opened my hand and there was the largest black widow I'd ever seen easily as big as a quarter. Lucky I was wearing gloves--always wear gloves when you're doing that kind of work collecting a tree.

This feller was attached to the electric bill when I pulled it out of the mailbox. It's an East Texas cockroach.
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Cute. Looks especially venomous.
 
Husband got bit by a brown recluse spider years ago and it put him in the hospital for 2 days. When it comes to anything that could harm my family or dogs, or eat us (ticks, mosquitoes) or the house ( termites, ants), no mercy
 
Cute. Looks especially venomous.
Not really. The sting is a little like a bee. My mom's cat and my dog have been stung many times. Cat got very good at killing them without getting stung.
 
Not really. The sting is a little like a bee. My mom's cat and my dog have been stung many times. Cat got very good at killing them without getting stung.
Also if you look carefully at this critter's back and joints, you'll see some hints of orange. Those areas will fluoresce under UV light. The woods literally can light up with them if you shine a UV light on the ground and around piles of old wood, etc.
 
Not really. The sting is a little like a bee. My mom's cat and my dog have been stung many times. Cat got very good at killing them without getting stung.
Well that’s a relief if they like to hang out in mailboxes!
I was under the impression that small pincers with a fat tail meant more venomous for scorpions. The idea being that stronger venom compensates for lack of pincer strength.
 
Well that’s a relief if they like to hang out in mailboxes!
I was under the impression that small pincers with a fat tail meant more venomous for scorpions. The idea being that stronger venom compensates for lack of pincer strength.
Scorpions are almost like crabs. Pincer size variation is just an indicator of what they eat in their habitat. Smaller pincers means smaller prey, like small insects. To my understanding there are no highly venomous to humans scorpions in the US.
But like spiders the ones that use venom as a defense are usually less camouflaged in appearance, like black widows delivering a neurotoxin. The brown recluse might be considered an exception, but it's not really venom per se. It's just an extra strong version of the same caustic enzyme solution stuff that liquefies the insides of the bugs they eat. It causes abscesses, not poisoning. Evolutionarily, it's maybe on a path toward true venom, but has a few thousand generations to go. More likely it's on a path toward eating larger prey like toads and small rodents.
 
Well that’s a relief if they like to hang out in mailboxes!
I was under the impression that small pincers with a fat tail meant more venomous for scorpions. The idea being that stronger venom compensates for lack of pincer strength.
Nah, this is a striped bark scorpion. Most common scorpion in Texas. I've been stung once, when I put my shoes on. Hurts, swells, but mostly a bee sting.
 
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When I lived near the swamp, once a year the spiders travel out of the swamp. They will cover the field with gossamer webs. Millions will get to my house. I had to spray several times a year to keep too many of them from getting into the house. Vast majority of them are harmless but I have found black widows and brown recluse. I use the stuff above to knock them down. Very effective.
 
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