My thought is great trees are not infinite and easily found. Marc has some great material. I don't care if it takes time to get it. He has sent me tons of pics in the past upon request. Why be in such a hurry? It's not like we are waiting on life saving medication or something. I thought bonsai was all about patience.... I think some people must stare at their trees until a leaf completely grows.
I am not going to beat a dead horse but the message I was hoping to convey is that when you pay for something you should get it. You should not have to adjust your expectations when there is money involved.
You are comparing patience in bonsai with waiting and hoping to get something you paid for weeks before. Be patient with someone being rude to you? I honestly don't see the correlation but maybe others in the forum will...You may not care and this may not be a pain point for you but think also of others and how they may have different expectations when it comes to them spending money.
Marc has awesome material and I don't think the challenges he's had involved any malice. In general if I pay for something I don't need to be patient. I need to get it at a reasonable time...Weeks, months to include little to delayed communication is difficult to deal with. I work hard for my money and those are my expectations...Not negotiable. Perhaps I stand alone in this view point but hey its my money.