Here is my take on the indoor/outdoor bonsai thing
Bonsai are plants.
Did you know there are no indoor plants.
All plants grow outside, they have developed / evolved / been designed, to grow outside, and even the concept of outside makes no sense, there are no outside plants, there are just plants, inside is an invention of monkeys, to stop them getting wet, because they don't like rain, but plants like rain, so plants never invented indoors, so there are no indoor plants, bonsai are plants, therefore, there are no indoor bonsai.
It is possible, however, to grow plants indoors, with varying degrees of success. This may be because the outdoors that the plants grow in can be quite similar to indoors. Or it might be because you can make the indoors to be a lot like the outdoors that a plant grows in.
If you want to grow a bonsai indoors, first you should ask, can I grow any plants indoors?
Different parts of your house have different micro climates, and these can change throughout a year, a south facing (northern hemisphere) window sill in winter is completely different environment to the same place in summer. In winter your plant may struggle to get enough light, in summer it might get so hot that its cells denature (if a plant gets too hot e.g. over ~40C, ~104F the proteins break down and the plant cells can no longer function), a warm bathroom can be a great place to grow orchids, but open a bathroom window in winter and it can change from a humid 17C to a frosty 0C, and your lovely moth orchid drops all its flowers...
Plants like water, it forms the fluid which transports the nutrients and sugars around the plant, it is the medium that chemical reactions happen in, it is used in photosynthesis, it is used to support the plant. Indoors does not have rain*, so you need to supply the rain, the frequency, the amount, the application method, tap water, rainwater...
Getting good at growing plants indoors, means understanding the different conditions in your house, and which plants will grow in which areas. It also means knowing how much to water a plant, how much can also change depending on the season, on the heating in the house, on humidity.
If you can grow houseplants, and they thrive, then you could try growing bonsai indoors, because you will likely have enough horticultural knowledge to know how to ensure the tree gets the light, water, temperature, humidity, fertilization etc. that it needs.
Also did you know, as well as there being no indoor plants, there are no pot plants, plants don't grow in pots, they grow in the ground*.
It is possible to grow plants in pots, with varying degrees of success. In a pot a plant can't get its own water, or nutrients, you need to supply them, in a pot they may not be able to support themselves, you may need to supply that support.
You can grow a tree in a pot by ensuring you provide all the things it needs it cannot get. Water, nutrients, support, the right amount of light, the right intensity of light.
Growing a tree in a pot isn't easy.
Growing a tree in a pot, inside, is like next level hard.
Most plants sold are commodity products, they are grown en-mass, they are sold en-mass, beyond the checkout, they don't care if they live or die, a supermarket plant might cost $2.50, and last a week or two. An "indoor bonsai" might cost 10 or 20 times that and last a week or two.
Why people say indoor bonsai's don't exist, is because spending $2.50 monies to kill a plant, is completely different to spending $50 monies to kill a plant, a person's expectations are different, their investment, and commitment are entirely different. And when the $50 bonsai dies they will have a very different reaction to when a $2.50 plant dies. A $50 bonsai is weaksauce, bonsai can cost so much more, if someone spends $2500 on a bonsai and tries to grow it indoors, and it dies... Not only do they lose their money, but they lose a beautiful plant, everything is bad.
Want to grow a bonsai indoors, learn how to grow bonsai outdoors, learn how to grow plants indoors, then apply the knowledge gained.
It is not impossible to grow a bonsai indoors, but there are no indoors plants.