Paradox
Marine Bonsologist
@Dysfunctional Vet
Very sorry to hear about this. My parents got a divorce when I was young because my father couldn't keep his pants on away from home so I fully sympathize with the feelings and betrayal you are going through.
I want to second the advice to get legal council. You can often get a consultation for free.
You have been together for 23 years, do you own the house you are living in?
If so, a divorce could result in the sale of that property (or her having to pay you something if she wants to keep it) to which you should be entitled to a portion of the money.
That would help you get yourself situated somewhere else.
Very sorry to hear about this. My parents got a divorce when I was young because my father couldn't keep his pants on away from home so I fully sympathize with the feelings and betrayal you are going through.
I want to second the advice to get legal council. You can often get a consultation for free.
You have been together for 23 years, do you own the house you are living in?
If so, a divorce could result in the sale of that property (or her having to pay you something if she wants to keep it) to which you should be entitled to a portion of the money.
That would help you get yourself situated somewhere else.