silvertab
Sapling
Also, friends have informed me (upon my request to review this thread) that I'm being as much of a dick as the people being dicks are. They DID agree about other people being dicks tho.
I apologize for my part in exacerbating that ...... i
Your friends aren't wrong I think you're the one showing a lot of ego... getting angry at pretty much any criticism and just bailing because you don't want to hear what the people have to say even if they are very knowledgeable on a topic that you supposedly have an interest in!
I'm just honestly curious if you have any genuine interest in bonsai...? This is after all a bonsai forum... Did you take a moment to check some of the amazing work or contributions some of the "dicks" who replied to you have posted before? Do you not see the worthiness in someone pointing out that you might just be wasting your time with a certain piece of material based on their previous experience? Do you know something that we don't?!
Quite frankly I'm just baffled by someone asking apparently very basic horticultural questions, and then acting as if they actually had all this stuff figured out and actually didn't need any advice... I guess you and I approach things differently! I come here for basic advice a lot too, I'm pretty new to this after all (maybe you're not?), and post pictures of materials I acquired and usually add "Also, don't hesitate to let me know if that tree is actually trash and not worth spending any time on!", because clearly it's something that I consider to be very valuable information (my time is limited after all). Could be a lack of confidence on my end, or perhaps overconfidence on yours! Who knows!
I still think you'd benefit a lot more from this community if you'd just.. chill out a bit, learn to take constructive criticism (or at the very least ignore it if you're really not interested), instead of just ragequitting...