I would like to add that it seems my maple absorbs water from the leaves and gives it to the soil from the roots during certain hours of the day (or night). Because I didn't water it for more than a week and only used the cold steam humidifier, but the soil is not dry yet and it is a little moist. It seems that the maple likes to dry the water around the roots faster when it sends water from the leaves to the roots. But I'm not sure.
Maples generally do NOT absorb that much, if any, water through their leaves. Temperate zone deciduous trees in general don't or can't absorb water through their leaves. That capability is primarily a trait of tropical trees. If your tree is an area with very humid conditions, water may condense on its leaves and then drop down onto the soil--the roots are still doing the transport work within the tree.
Maple DO transpire water OUT of their leaves, however. That transpiration process can be quite dramatic in arid conditions and can dry out soil and the tree if conditions allow.
You're right that maples don't like soggy soil They also don't like over dry soil. You need to get a better idea of how much water your tree is actually using, because I'd bet that is a big contributor to what's going on with it.