Every thread in my body says leave this alone...but now that I home from work and have the time to respond appropriately I feel the need to defend myself.
Will...first let me say that you act like this doesn't ever happen to you and when it does your are just the poor innocent one with intelligence on his side.. (I bet no one but you agrees with that)
You said this to Tom,
"Can you honestly read through the thread here and say that I instigated anything?"
For me Will, this is where the instigation began:
Exactly what was your intention, Will, when you decided to type this? Was this necessary to make your point? Other than ask a question what had I done at this point to deserve this tone? I took this as only a slightly veiled insult. (again I doubt anyone that has been reading your posts for any period of time would disagree with the nature of this comment) And I called you on it in my response.
But then you come back with this...
As if the tone of the history lesson that proceeded the above quote did not already imply that I was an idiot, (When in fact I have been studying those very texts since the publication of two of them and the Mustard Seed Garden for a least a decade before you started in bonsai - why do I even try to defend myself?), in your usual fashion, had to take it a step further...go into attack mode! Can you tell me, Will, that the above quotes were not written to instigate? Were not meant to be insulting? Were not meant to belittle what I had said Again, I ask you, Will, exactly what had I said to deserve this kind of response? How would respond to this? (how do you think the folks reading this are reacting?)
You complain that no one can or will carry on a discussion...an intelligent discussion. I ask you, Will, is the tone of your posts in this thread, and the dozens of other just like it, what you consider an intelligent discussion? Can really you believe that your overly aggressive and zealous style is going to encourage and enable thoughtful discussion. I am not taking anything away from your detail...nobody is better than you at this...but what about the TONE, Will?
You of all people, with your gift for rhetoric, should recognize that your responses do more than stir good discussion. They in site, they piss people off because you talk down to them, they appear to come from someone so intent on winning everything that he leaves all respect and humility behind... There is a desperation about how you choose to respond in threads that is never conducive to an intelligent discussion.
You seem to forget that you confided to me once in a pm. I was obviously naive about you but you made your purpose very clear...
and...That is why I am so embarrassed, mad, and regretful that I even started this thread...quell your ego, Will... its intent was never to in site you...only to ask why do we compare art forms that are so fundamentally different. Obviously a question that was much too shallow for your deep intellect but yet too much of a nice fat slow pitch for you to resist swinging at
and by the way I post to my blog pretty regularly. At least on this blog I get to be my own moderator...and I am not expected to answer to your KOB flunky about what I post and where I do it.
I expect that you will respond to this post by changing the subject and blaming me some more just as you did with Tom's recent post...and that's ok Will...
In fact since you like contests so much and are so good at creating them, I propose a little contest or poll, Will. Lets ask the folks here at BonsaiNut who they side with..? you or me? If after 7 days, more people side with you, I will never post here again. Of course the same would apply to you...if more folks are on my side at the end of 7 days then you would stop posting here as well. Lets make it registered users as of today and welcome them to go back and read any of our previous posts.
Lets put it in the hands of the folks that read and post here! I'm game, are you?
John
Will...first let me say that you act like this doesn't ever happen to you and when it does your are just the poor innocent one with intelligence on his side.. (I bet no one but you agrees with that)
You said this to Tom,
"Can you honestly read through the thread here and say that I instigated anything?"
For me Will, this is where the instigation began:
What would you have us use as comparison? Gardening? Topiary? Bowling? Needle Point?
Exactly what was your intention, Will, when you decided to type this? Was this necessary to make your point? Other than ask a question what had I done at this point to deserve this tone? I took this as only a slightly veiled insult. (again I doubt anyone that has been reading your posts for any period of time would disagree with the nature of this comment) And I called you on it in my response.
But then you come back with this...
What is laughable is your attempt to censor discussion based on experience. Will you be the judge on who is qualified to discuss anything on this forum? What are your qualifications as a selection judge? Should we all pm you first to see what is allowed?
Silly, isn't it? John, if you disagree with the subject, debate it intelligently, but don't attack the participants, that is a juvenile tactic and it carries no weight.
As if the tone of the history lesson that proceeded the above quote did not already imply that I was an idiot, (When in fact I have been studying those very texts since the publication of two of them and the Mustard Seed Garden for a least a decade before you started in bonsai - why do I even try to defend myself?), in your usual fashion, had to take it a step further...go into attack mode! Can you tell me, Will, that the above quotes were not written to instigate? Were not meant to be insulting? Were not meant to belittle what I had said Again, I ask you, Will, exactly what had I said to deserve this kind of response? How would respond to this? (how do you think the folks reading this are reacting?)
You complain that no one can or will carry on a discussion...an intelligent discussion. I ask you, Will, is the tone of your posts in this thread, and the dozens of other just like it, what you consider an intelligent discussion? Can really you believe that your overly aggressive and zealous style is going to encourage and enable thoughtful discussion. I am not taking anything away from your detail...nobody is better than you at this...but what about the TONE, Will?
You of all people, with your gift for rhetoric, should recognize that your responses do more than stir good discussion. They in site, they piss people off because you talk down to them, they appear to come from someone so intent on winning everything that he leaves all respect and humility behind... There is a desperation about how you choose to respond in threads that is never conducive to an intelligent discussion.
You seem to forget that you confided to me once in a pm. I was obviously naive about you but you made your purpose very clear...
and...That is why I am so embarrassed, mad, and regretful that I even started this thread...quell your ego, Will... its intent was never to in site you...only to ask why do we compare art forms that are so fundamentally different. Obviously a question that was much too shallow for your deep intellect but yet too much of a nice fat slow pitch for you to resist swinging at
and by the way I post to my blog pretty regularly. At least on this blog I get to be my own moderator...and I am not expected to answer to your KOB flunky about what I post and where I do it.
I expect that you will respond to this post by changing the subject and blaming me some more just as you did with Tom's recent post...and that's ok Will...
In fact since you like contests so much and are so good at creating them, I propose a little contest or poll, Will. Lets ask the folks here at BonsaiNut who they side with..? you or me? If after 7 days, more people side with you, I will never post here again. Of course the same would apply to you...if more folks are on my side at the end of 7 days then you would stop posting here as well. Lets make it registered users as of today and welcome them to go back and read any of our previous posts.
Lets put it in the hands of the folks that read and post here! I'm game, are you?
John
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