Mites are those tiny little bugs, a member of the spider family. They can be difficult to get rid of. You can barley see them, they also produce little webs, which is a sign of infestation. They suck the sap from the leaves, which makes them turn yellow and die and fall off. Mites also thrive in an environment with no wind or water—or indoors. You can try spraying your tree with a garden hose to wash them away, followed by treating with neem. I believe when I would treat my tree i would do it 1st thing in the morning to avoid any scortch from the sun. Remove any known dead branches or leaves. As far as your mixture, the amount of neem should be ok. My directions say 1.5 - 3 TBSP. per quart, you're within that range. I've never added any other chemicals to the neem, so I don't have an answer for those two. I always had luck with just plain Neem. Maybe somebody else here would know. To get rid of Mites, you need to keep treating your tree once every 5-7 days until the infestation is gone and probably a few weeks afterwards as well. Also, treat the area your tree was in. Just be patient and wait and see what happens.