never heard of Elaeagnus, but no the color is pretty much the same from both sidesElaeagnus maybe? Definitely looks fuzzy like it and stems are the right color too.
Are the greener leaves noticably lighter colored underneath?
This would be my (uneducated) guess tooGuessing a Malus of some kind.
It might be native, honestly I have no idea :SIf you are posting from Lebanon... is it a native of the area?
If it is an Cotoneaster it is a variety I've never seen before . Do you mean Crab Apple by Crabbyappleton? I would love it to bePossibility of Crabbyappleton but maybe Catoneaster variety.
Cotoneaster might tally with the Hawthorn ID - similar berries. Quince also jumped out when I saw the leaves. They do seem a little small for quince but there is nothing for scale in the photo. Maybe a finger or ruler in the next photo will help give some idea of size.
Rhaphiolepsis can have the common name of hawthorn; however, while it is in same family as Crataegus, it’s pretty different as as semi-evergreen subtropical ~genus...wonder if this is what you have..
I believe you are totally right. It does look like a Diospyros kaki...I have Rhaphiolepsis in my landscaping, and I don't think it looks similar. Lebanon and Southern California have similar Mediterranean climates, and my Rhaphiolepsis are all evergreen. They have stiffer shiny leaves that are a dark green. Right now they are all blooming
If I had to compare it to anything in my garden at the moment, it looks most like a Japanese persimmon. Leaf shape is identical, shiny light green surface with light white hairs underneath. Persimmon is a deciduous, and right now it is just budding out - similar to the OP's plant. Grows USDA zones 8-10. Perhaps Diospyros kaki 'hachiya' which is a very common edible persimmon cultivar. We'll see what the blooms look like
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Time will confirm I guess